Even if you are married to the best spouse in the whole world, if you do not guard your heart, you may end up “falling in love
with someone aside your spouse and eventually ruin your
No one gets married and plans to have affair but lots of
married men and women are into affairs today because they
slept when they should have been wide awake with their five sense alert
- Don’t be too friendly with the opposite sex.
This is where lots of married people land in trouble.
Over spirituality and pride will destroy your marriage!
You can’t handle close
friendship with the opposite sex as a married person. Your
heart is involved.
- Don’t share your personal problems with an opposite sex
It will bond you together. Problems bond people.
- Don’t contact any opposite sex you are fond of.
If you secretly admire them, you are fond of them and there is a
tingling in your heart at the mere thought of them, don’t
- Avoid unnecessary eye contact that lingers with the
- Don’t tell an opposite sex you are romantic or sexy.
That private information is for your spouse only.
- Avoid discussions with the opposite sex when you are tired,
very sad, depressed, sorrowful, drowsy, sleepy or very sick.
This can cloud your judgment and make you say silly things.
Talk to your husband/wife instead.
- Avoid unnecessary compliment of the opposite sex.
- Stop saying “I love you” to the opposite sex.
- Work on your Marriage. Keep the fire of love and romance
alive in your Marriage.
- Protect your Family.
Don’t share your marital problems with your opposite sex friend.
It will bond you.
- Never flirt with the opposite sex.
- Mind the pictures you post on social media. Limit pictures that show your curves or portray you as sexy.
- Do not contact all your EX after marriage.
- Don’t chat with the opposite sex on the days you are horny. Even if it’s during a time such as this (when you don’t get to see face to face)… The fact is that things will soon go back to normal and we’ll all resume our socioeconomic lives. Trust me the first time you set eyes on them when you resume, the mind has a way of just picking up from where you left of (in your chats), and that could be disastrous!
- Stop focusing on your spouse’s weaknesses and appreciate their strengths.
If you always see the bad side of your spouse, you will be angry, bitter, critical and look for someone who can “understand” you and make you happy aside your spouse. That is the beginning of an emotional affair and eventual sexual affair. It is the beginning of the end of a once glorious marriage!
FLEE from all appearance of evil is what the Bible says.
What you will not eat, don’t bring it to your nose. Don’t smell it!
Don’t start what you cannot finish!
Avoid all emotional and sexual affairs. They will destroy your
May you not take a step that will lead to eternal regret in
PLEASE SEEK FOR THE FRUIT OF THE SPIRIT CALLED SELF CONTROL AND ALWAYS ANCHOR YOUR THOUGHTS ON PHIL 4:8.
GOD BLESS YOU.
The Lord will keep our homes, marriages and keep us pure to reign with Him in Jesus name. Amen.