TEN SECRETS OF MARRIAGE TO MARRIED AND THOSE PREPARING TO GET MARRIED SOON.

  1. EVERYONE YOU MARRY HAS A WEAKNESS
    Only God has no weakness. Every rose flower has its own
    thorn. If you focus too much on your spouse’s weakness, you
    can’t get the best out of his/her strength.
  2. EVERYONE YOU MARRY HAS A DARK HISTORY
    No one is an Angel, therefore, avoid digging one’s past. What
    matters is the present life of your partner. Old things are
    passed away. Try to forgive and forget. The past can’t be
    changed. So focus on the present and the future!
  3. EVERY MARRIAGE HAS IT’S OWN CHALLENGES
    Marriage is not a bed of roses. Every shinning marriage has
    gone through it’s own test of hot and excruciating fire. True
    love is proved in times of challenges. Fight for your marriage!
    Make up your mind to stay with your spouse in times of need.
    Remember this is the vow you made on your wedding day!
  4. EVERY MARRIAGE HAS DIFFERENT LEVELS OF SUCCESS
    Don’t compare your marriage with anyone! We can never be
    equal, some will be far in front and others far behind. To avoid
    marriage stresses, be patient, work hard and with time, your
    marriage dreams shall come true.
  5. TO MARRY IS TO DECLARE A WAR
    When you marry, you must declare a war against enemies of
    marriage. Some of the enemies of marriage are: Ignorance,
    Prayerlessness, Unforgiveness, Adultery, Third Party Influence,
    Stinginess, Stubbornness, Lack Of Love, Rudeness, Wife
    battery, Laziness, Divorce etc. Be ready to fight to maintain
    your marriage zone.
  6. THERE IS NO PERFECT MARRIAGE
    There is no ready made marriage anywhere. Marriage is hard
    work, volunteer yourself and perfect it daily. Marriage is like a
    CAR with Gear oil, gear box, back hassles and if this parts are
    not properly maintained, the car will brake down somewhere
    along the road and expose the occupants to unhealthy
    circumstances. Many of us are careless about our marriages.
    Are you? If you are, please pay attention to your marriage.
  7. GOD CANNOT GIVE YOU THE COMPLETE PERSON YOU
    DESIRE
    He (God) gives you, him or her in the form of raw materials in
    order for you to mould what you desire. You may desire a
    woman who can pray for 1 hour but your wife can only pray for
    30 minutes. With your love, prayer and encouragement, she
    can improve.
  8. TO MARRY IS TO TAKE A RISK
    You cannot predict what will happen after marriage, as
    situations may change, so, leave a room for adjustment.
    Pregnancy may not come in the next 4 years. You may get
    married to her because she’s slim but she becomes 100%
    fatter after a child. He may lose his beautiful job for years,
    hence you may have to take the financial responsibility of the
    family until he gets a new job. But with God by your side, you
    will smile at last.
  9. MARRIAGE IS NOT A CONTRACT, IT IS A COVENANT
    Marriage needs total commitment, love is the glue that makes
    a couple stick together. Divorce starts in the mind. Never think
    of divorce! Never threaten your spouse with divorce. Choose
    to remain married! God hates divorce.
  10. EVERY MARRIAGE HAS A PRICE TO PAY
    Marriage is like a bank account. It is the money you deposit
    into your bank account that you can withdrawn. If you don’t
    deposit love, peace and care into your marriage, you are not a
    candidate of a blissful home. There is no free love in marriage,
    you cannot love without giving and sacrificing.
    May God give us the grace and wisdom to build a heaven on
    earth marriage.

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